What would you do..............

[saasy]

Hi Ladies!
Need your opinions
I have a friend who is lovely but lately is moaning about everything eg: the kids she minds, her husband, my husband, her other friends.....

Tbh i feel like i don't want to be around her as its causing tension in my relationship with dh
I liked her a lot but feel she's changed lately for the worst
What would you do??

[Daisy]

do u think maybe she is depressed?
sounds 2 me like she may need some kind of help, 2 change like that, must be a cause iykwim

[saasy]

thanks Daisy i never thought of that, that could explain why the sudden change of mood.
I will try and discuss it with her

[Silver]

Yea it sounds odd that she has so suddenly changed. There could be something going on in her life.
Has this been sudden or gradual? How is it affecting you and your DH, are you off loading onto him?

I think if it were me, I would ask her if she's ok? Does she need to talk? Over lunch maybe, or a drink?

[Blossom]

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[saasy]

Yea it sounds odd that she has so suddenly changed. There could be something going on in her life.
Has this been sudden or gradual? How is it affecting you and your DH, are you off loading onto him?

I think if it were me, I would ask her if she's ok? Does she need to talk? Over lunch maybe, or a drink?

Hi Silver,
yeh i do off load on dh which i guess does not help,i do want to be there for her, thank you for the replies very grateful

[Silver]

yeh i do off load on dh which i guess does not help,i do want to be there for her, thank you for the replies very grateful

Don't tell DH so much of it he's only looking out for you. Have you spoken to her lately?